Test your Etiquette IQ

 

Protocol Enterprises receives many questions throughout the year.  Listed below are several Frequently Asked Questions and the answers to those unanswered and sometimes confusing questions.
 
1. Should you always open doors and pull out chairs for a lady?
2. Who goes first when going through a revolving door – you or your date?
3. Do you offer to pay, even if you were not the one who extended the invitation?
4. Is it okay to put your sunglass on the dining table?
5. Where does your napkin belong when you are finished eating?
6. Is your bread plate on the right or left of your dinner plate?
7. Do you use a toothpick or chew gum?
8. When is it acceptable to put your elbows on the table?
9. Should you sit to the right or the left of a lady at a restaurant?
10. When you are introducing people, who do you introduce first?
11. Should you apply your lipstick at the dining table?
12. Is it acceptable to hang your handbag on the back of your chair at a restaurant?
13. What should you say when you need to excuse yourself during dinner to visit the powder room?
14. Do you have to let your date order dinner for you at a restaurant?
15. When you are making your way down a crowded row in a movie theatre, do you face the screen or the people who are already in their seats?
16. Do you ever offer to pay for a date?
17. Should you sit to the right or the left of your date at a restaurant?
18. Do you stand when you are being introduced to a man?
19. Is it okay to put your cell phone on the dining table?
20. In which hand should you hold your drink?
21. What does “holiday attire” mean?
 
22. I’m confused about what kind of gift to I give to my boss.
 
23. How should I sign our names on letters or cards?

 

Answers:
Q. Should you always open doors and pull out chairs for a lady?
A. On a date - yes, at work - no.
   
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Q. Who goes first when going through a revolving door – you or your date?
   
A. The gentleman goes through and pushes for the woman.
   
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Q. Do you offer to pay, even if you were not the one who extended the invitation?
   
A. It is a nice gesture; however the one who invites is the one who should pay.
   
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Q. Is it okay to put your sunglass on the dining table?
   
A. No, the dining table is for food, we should not unload our pockets onto the table.
   
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Q. Where does your napkin belong when you are finished eating?
   
A. Always to the left of your plate.
   
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Q. Is your bread plate on the right or left of your dinner plate?
   
A. Left
   
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Q. Do you use a toothpick or chew gum?
   
A. In emergency cases toothpicks should only be used in the privacy of the restroom. Chewing gum – NEVER! It is tacky!
   
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Q. When is it acceptable to put your elbows on the table?
   
A. Elbows on the table are only acceptable when there is no food on the table.
   
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Q. Should you sit to the right or the left of a lady at a restaurant?
   
A. The lady should sit to your right.
   
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Q. When you are introducing people, who do you introduce first?
   
A. The most important person should be introduced first.
   
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Q. Should you apply your lipstick at the dining table?
   
A. No, go to a private area, perhaps the powder room.
   
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Q. Is it acceptable to hang your handbag on the back of your chair at a restaurant?
   
A. No, your handbag should be tucked safely under your chair or beside your feet.
   
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Q. What should you say when you need to excuse yourself during dinner to visit the powder room?
   
A. Excuse me.
   
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Q. Do you have to let your date order dinner for you at a restaurant?
   
A. No, you have the option.
   
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Q. When you are making your way down a crowded row in a movie theatre, do you face the screen or the people who are already in their seats?
   
A. Face the people in your row, this way your backside is not in their face.
   
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Q. Do you ever offer to pay for a date?
   
A. The person who invites is the one who should pay for the meal.
   
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Q. Should you sit to the right or the left of your date at a restaurant?
   
A. A woman sits to the man’s right.
   
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Q. Do you stand when you are being introduced to a man?
   
A. Yes, a person with good manners always stands when being introduced to anyone.
   
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Q. Is it okay to put your cell phone on the dining table?
   
A. No
   
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Q. In which hand should you hold your drink?
   
A. Left hand, this leaves your right hand open for socializing.
   
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Q.  What does “holiday attire” mean?
A.  Always call to confirm what is "holiday attire." This term can have various meanings to different people.
   
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Q.  I’m confused about what kind of gift to I give to my boss.
A.  In any situation, give gifts that honor the recipient. Refrain, from giving a gift that fits your taste. Make sure not to go overboard in expense, but go overboard with sincerity.
   
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Q.  How should I sign our names on letters or cards?
A.  This is a great question that has an age old etiquette rule.
Remember the man’s first name is never separated from his last name.
Lisa and John Smith
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
For a family one option in signing a greeting card is:
The Smiths
John, Lisa, Ben and Tiffany
   
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